So I said “Where do you want to start? I guess with the first part; yes I told her that I am into female domination and that I wanted her to take control and discipline me including spanking and slapping; I told her that while we were talking online before we even started dating. I even gave her a list of things that I would like; it had like 20-30 things on it.” She interrupted and asked “like what?” I really wasn’t trying to get into details but it was obvious that she was looking for every detail so I followed up with “Why are you asking? To embarrass me or is there something else behind this?” “A little of both, I’ve had guys who say they want things but then I do them and they become little bitches”. Ok, well here are some examples that I told her I would like before we had even met in person 1. Put clothespins on my nipples and balls. 2. Whip my ass with a paddle 20-30 times. 3. Grab my balls in one hand and hit them with the other at least 5 times. That’s a sample of what I told her. And she did them a number of times, but I would say less than 40 times the whole time we were together; which was over ten years. So basically I asked to be physically dominated from before we started dating and it averaged less than once every 4 months; and in reality she did it a lot more towards the end so it was years of once or twice a year. And I felt like it was like she didn’t care what I wanted as long as she got her way; and at the end she seemed to do it just to be a bitch, neither of us got the pleasure out of it that we should have. But by that point I was just trying to keep us together so I took what I could get but wasn’t happy because she was saying she wanted to separate and even moved into the guest room. I was ok with separating but she didn’t just want to move into the guest house we had, she wanted to move five hours away to the town her boyfriend lived in. And then she admitted that she was in love with him and that just destroyed every bit of trust; and yes I did try and break them up because I felt that she was in love with him and I didn’t trust it. It took more than six months for her to admit that though.
And yes, I’ve got wide hands but for me at least the myth isn’t true, I don’t have a super thick cock I’ve heard that I’m about average girth and am just over 5 inches in length. So no I don’t have a big dick, and I’m not surprised that she said she needed a vibrator along with me to get off, especially after some of the cocks I’ve seen her take. One was as thick as a beer can, another was at least 10 inches, and she even took both of them anal. So I know I didn’t measure up in that area. But I could go 3 hours without cumming so that worked in my favor. And yes, she didn’t seem satisfied in our marriage so I had found some internet sites that talked a lot about cuckolding and the idea was hot to me so I would bring it up a couple of time a month, I did mostly try and bring it up while we were having sex so that maybe she would be more open to it. I can’t even begin to say how many times I mentioned it, but it did take about two years before she even started considering it. So I found and modified a marriage and cuckold contract for us that basically said she could fuck who she wanted when she wanted and I would remain faithful; the only thing was she was supposed to tell me about it, preferably before it happened. And that first contract was signed in 2012, the first time she took advantage of it was 2013 with her prom date which she traveled and got a hotel to meet him in, she was supposed to use protection but even that very first time she went bareback with him. So right away she proved that she didn’t care about any agreement that we had made as a couple. But to be truthful it was a turn on for me. So as far as the cock cage goes, no I don’t have the one we bought, somehow we managed to leave it in a hotel room, but that was after having it for a few years. I really don’t remember how long was the longest I wore it; but I know at least twice she made me wear it when you were around.” She said “So she was that worried that you wanted to fuck me that she made you wear a cage?” “Yes” I told her; and we both had another beer “but the fact of the matter was that I really just wanted to be dominated by both of you”
“Oh really, so you wanted her to let me know what was going on so that I could help treat you like crap?” she said. “Yes, that would have been great at the time; I mean if you think about it at one point I even told you to take her out and get her laid because we weren’t getting along at the time” “I remember that, I thought you were just kidding” She said. “No, not at all,” I replied. “Once she finally decided to cuckold me she seemed to embrace it wholeheartedly. So over the next 4 years she fucked 16 guys that I know about a few just once others several times. Sometimes in hotels and other times in the guest house until our daughter moved into it, then she started using our house almost exclusively getting fucked in our master bedroom on our bed. Actually I still have that same bed.” “Hold on she was doing it at the house with her daughter right up the driveway? Did she ever say anything about the strangers coming over?” I didn’t answer that very fast so she told me to get her another beer. When I came back with it she said “Well? You told me that you would be honest and fill in the gaps of her story.” “Ok, she knew about it and so did the youngest which means I’m sure all four kids knew. (All adult aged) The oldest knew the most. I mean she had me so manipulated that she made me ask the oldest if she would mind if her mom screwed her ex boyfriend friend. She said she didn’t care; and yes she did fuck him several times.” “Oh my god! You actually asked your daughter if her mom could have sex with her ex? You really were a pussy whipped bitch weren’t you? I thought she didn’t do the physical domination stuff, how did she get you to do that?” “I guess yeah you could say that I was a pussy whipped bitch, and I don’t remember how that came about it was either the years of manipulating me to do what she wanted or she could have promised me a physical domination session and that would have motivated me to ask. I mean she knew it was going on before then, this was just her ex. And just to be clear she would say she would be rough with me but it was with totally halfhearted or she wouldn’t follow through with it at all. At one point; while we were visiting you, the youngest went snooping in her laptop and found that she was chatting with guys and setting up dates. She called and gave her mom all kinds of hell.”
At that point another beer was gone so I got us each another. When I came back I told her that I had kept my part of the bargain and can I see her boobs yet? “Hell no you aren’t done yet but if it keeps going like it has you may get more than seeing them; you might just have a hell of a weekend. So get back to it, bitch.” “Oh really? Ok, so anyway those two definitely know and I have no doubt that they told the others. Which means that all my kids knew that she was making me her bitch. Plus, she didn’t work the last couple of years and she didn’t do anything around the house, I had to do everything. And hell for all I know your kids know also; but they don’t talk that much.” That was when she dropped the bombshell that she had first heard about all this from one of her kids that one of mine had talked too about it. And that was what started her pumping her sister for information. So now not only was I a bitch to my ex, three daughters and son, now it included her sister and her probably five kids, but definitely 2 of them had mentioned it to the sister-in-law. Great. Now I was drunk, horny about talking about all this because I get off on the humiliation, and now totally embarrassed because my nieces probably knew also.