Ex sister-in-law domination/humiliation by John51sub..,

Ex sister-in-law uses what she learned against me , Out of nowhere I heard from my ex-sister-in-law; we had always gotten along and could actually hold a conversation, so while it was surprising it wasn’t totally weird. Her sister and I had divorce several years ago and during that time it was mostly just happy birthday type of contact. It started with a text asking if I was busy, of course I wasn’t because it was in the evening after work. I was shocked when right as I said I wasn’t the phone rang and it was her on the other end.

She didn’t waste any time once the pleasantries were done getting down to asking me what she called for, I was afraid she was going to ask for money but it was nothing like that at all. She said “So I was hanging out with my sister this weekend and she was telling me about the two of you and I just wanted to talk to you and find out your side of the story.” That took me aback but I replied with “Well, what did she tell you and what can I straighten you out about?” She laughed at that, and said “We will talk about it but I want it to be in person; if you aren’t busy I will come up and see you this weekend and we can talk” Again, I really didn’t expect that, but I told her that I would be here and I was ok with seeing her. She said “Okay, send me your address and I will be there late Friday evening.” At this point I was thinking fast; it’s not that I didn’t want to see her but I wasn’t sure about letting her know my address, mainly because I was happy with my ex not knowing where I lived exactly. So I suggested meeting at a restaurant and we could grab a bite and have a drink before we headed to my place. She agreed and I gave her the address of a local place.

The rest of the week went like normal and I almost forgot about her coming into town; I had gone to the local watering hole with some co-workers and had 3-4 beers when my phone went off with a text saying she was about 20 minutes out. This really wasn’t what I would call a good start for me; I knew she could drink pretty well and I was already half in the bag. So I excused myself and headed toward the restaurant and got there about 5 minutes ahead of her. I got a table in the bar facing the door and got a glass of water.

She walked in still looking the same 5’6” about mostly height weight proportionate with a C cup and dirty blond hair. She saw me and walked into the bar, I got up and we hugged and said hi. We just exchanged small talk and ordered drinks and food. After a while I relaxed, it didn’t seem that she had brought anyone with her and didn’t seem to be mad about anything. We enjoyed a couple of drinks with dinner and then she followed me back to my place.

Once inside I grabbed us a couple of beers and we sat down, and then she said “Ok, now let’s talk about why I came all the way here to see you.” “Ok, what did she tell you because even though we didn’t stay together our business is ours and I don’t want to say anything crazy” I replied. “Listen, I’m going to lay out what she told me and then I want you to answer some very specific questions and fill in some gaps, do you understand?” she told me. And then she really surprised me and told me not to interrupt her while she laid it out. Just out of instinct I replied with “Yes ma’am”.

She started relating what she had been told and it went something like this: “Ok she told me that you said you were into being dominated, like tied up and spanked and stuff like that and she tried to satisfy that desire in me. And that I even wanted her to smack me across the face and that I even bought a strap-on for her to use on me. And she said she did that stuff quite a bit. She also said that I took forever to cum but that my dick was so small that she had to use a vibrator at the same time to be able to get off. She also said that about 3 years after we were married I started talking to her about cuckolding me. And I didn’t even know what that was so she explained that you wanted her to find other guys to have sex with. And she said she slept with close to 20 guys while we were married. But it took about 2 years of me bringing it up before she would do because she thought I was just looking for an excuse to fuck another woman. She also said that the two of us researched and bought a chastity cage and that she locked my cock up and several times when we were visiting her that I had to wear it because she thought I was trying to have a 3 some with her. And then she said that you told her to get a boyfriend so that you all didn’t have to worry about STDs so much, and because you liked to go down on her and lick the other guys cum out of her; which she really liked. But after she found the guy you got all jealous and at one point you basically forced her to get in touch with a guy that she had slept with before and have sex with him trying to get her to leave the guy she liked. And then when that didn’t work you just became a dick and complained every time they got together. And that being a dick and jealous over what I had asked for is what broke us up. Now that I’ve told you all that, and she said more than that but that is the jist of what she told me. And now I have a few specific questions: 1. Did you actually ask her to fuck other guys? 2. Did you really lick those guys and your own cum out of her? 3. Did she really fuck that many guys while you were together? 4. Did she really lock your cock up in a cage and how long did that last? 5. Did you really buy a strap-on for her to fuck you with? 6. She also told me that she sent you to a store and had you buy a couple of dresses and high heels to wear, is that true? 7. Do you still have the cock cage and can I see it? 8. And the last one I wrote down was that she said that you asked her to have you suck a couple of guys’ cocks, if that’s true how many did you suck and did you spit or swallow?

Now during all that I did my best to stay quiet and not give anything away; but now she was looking for answers. I wasn’t thrilled with the information that she had received and it seemed to me that I had been betrayed by my ex; and I was more than a little embarrassed. I’m sure my face was red; so I got up and got us our third beer since we had been at the house. She had a couple of mixed drinks during dinner and I had 3 beers; so as you can tell at this point I was on at least my tenth beer and was getting a bit past the tipsy stage. So I looked at her and said “Ok that was very graphic and specific if I answer what is in it for me? I thought this was about finding out something to maybe help your sister since I’ve heard she is drinking too much and doesn’t seem to be making good decisions; but it seems like you are just out to get dirt and embarrass me.” She told me that if I answered honestly and fully that she would finally show me her tits and that’s all she would guarantee and that I enjoyed being humiliated so I’m getting at least two things out of it; if it will make it easier you can strip and give me all my answers while you are naked in front of me..” I laughed and told her to “finish her beer and that I wasn’t drunk enough for that yet.” I got her another beer just trying to get her as drunk as possible so this wouldn’t follow me so bad because maybe she wouldn’t remember; I should have known better.

So I said “Where do you want to start? I guess with the first part; yes I told her that I am into female domination and that I wanted her to take control and discipline me including spanking and slapping; I told her that while we were talking online before we even started dating. I even gave her a list of things that I would like; it had like 20-30 things on it.” She interrupted and asked “like what?” I really wasn’t trying to get into details but it was obvious that she was looking for every detail so I followed up with “Why are you asking? To embarrass me or is there something else behind this?” “A little of both, I’ve had guys who say they want things but then I do them and they become little bitches”. Ok, well here are some examples that I told her I would like before we had even met in person 1. Put clothespins on my nipples and balls. 2. Whip my ass with a paddle 20-30 times. 3. Grab my balls in one hand and hit them with the other at least 5 times. That’s a sample of what I told her. And she did them a number of times, but I would say less than 40 times the whole time we were together; which was over ten years. So basically I asked to be physically dominated from before we started dating and it averaged less than once every 4 months; and in reality she did it a lot more towards the end so it was years of once or twice a year. And I felt like it was like she didn’t care what I wanted as long as she got her way; and at the end she seemed to do it just to be a bitch, neither of us got the pleasure out of it that we should have. But by that point I was just trying to keep us together so I took what I could get but wasn’t happy because she was saying she wanted to separate and even moved into the guest room. I was ok with separating but she didn’t just want to move into the guest house we had, she wanted to move five hours away to the town her boyfriend lived in. And then she admitted that she was in love with him and that just destroyed every bit of trust; and yes I did try and break them up because I felt that she was in love with him and I didn’t trust it. It took more than six months for her to admit that though.

And yes, I’ve got wide hands but for me at least the myth isn’t true, I don’t have a super thick cock I’ve heard that I’m about average girth and am just over 5 inches in length. So no I don’t have a big dick, and I’m not surprised that she said she needed a vibrator along with me to get off, especially after some of the cocks I’ve seen her take. One was as thick as a beer can, another was at least 10 inches, and she even took both of them anal. So I know I didn’t measure up in that area. But I could go 3 hours without cumming so that worked in my favor. And yes, she didn’t seem satisfied in our marriage so I had found some internet sites that talked a lot about cuckolding and the idea was hot to me so I would bring it up a couple of time a month, I did mostly try and bring it up while we were having sex so that maybe she would be more open to it. I can’t even begin to say how many times I mentioned it, but it did take about two years before she even started considering it. So I found and modified a marriage and cuckold contract for us that basically said she could fuck who she wanted when she wanted and I would remain faithful; the only thing was she was supposed to tell me about it, preferably before it happened. And that first contract was signed in 2012, the first time she took advantage of it was 2013 with her prom date which she traveled and got a hotel to meet him in, she was supposed to use protection but even that very first time she went bareback with him. So right away she proved that she didn’t care about any agreement that we had made as a couple. But to be truthful it was a turn on for me. So as far as the cock cage goes, no I don’t have the one we bought, somehow we managed to leave it in a hotel room, but that was after having it for a few years. I really don’t remember how long was the longest I wore it; but I know at least twice she made me wear it when you were around.” She said “So she was that worried that you wanted to fuck me that she made you wear a cage?” “Yes” I told her; and we both had another beer “but the fact of the matter was that I really just wanted to be dominated by both of you”