It’s been a couple weeks since then and Dave invited me over to hang out with him and his kids. It was about 7 so kind of later in the day than I’d hoped, but I put on a nice loose but short cami dress and headed over and he was making shrimp and noodles when I got there. He introduced me to his kids and when it was ready we ate dinner together, it was pretty good. His daughter asked me if I was his gf and I said we haven’t worked out details yet or talked about it yet but I’d like to keep coming around. After dinner while they were in the living room playing games we stayed at the table and talked details and I asked if he was ok with me having other involvements, saying he’d be included in the ones he wanted to be and that he would have that option too.
He said he was hoping for more of an exclusive thing and a gf who he could trust with his kids or have a relationship with, I said I can be that I just have alot of people in my life already and I’ve always been that way. So when I’m not spending time with him I might be entertaining someone else. He said he’s “not a boring guy” but he’s had that and wants something more serious. I argued I can be the thing he wants when I’m around and be me when I’m on my own, that from his perspective it would be a normal relationship if he didn’t want to know or partake in my other relationships, that I would prefer honesty but we could just say “what I do in my time he doesn’t need to know about”, and I was sorry if I disappointed him. I had my hands over his and batted my eyes for that last part, and then I sweetened it by saying J would be disappointed that he’s a “no” and she was looking forward to just the 3 of us hanging out…
He jokingly said that he couldn’t be wooed by my throwing meat at him and I chuckled and was like “damn” and knocked on the table. We were quiet for a minute while I was playing with his middle finger with my thumb and all fingertips closed around it, stroking all the way down and up like a dick, and I asked disappointedly if he was sure it had to be exclusive or nothing or he wasn’t interested in a 3some with a couple women. Or 3? I could maaaybe swing 5 if that would convince him. He laughed and said he couldn’t handle that but asked if I was serious, to which I said yeah if their schedules matched up and I’d have to ask but most of us had done that already so probably. He stretched out a wishful “nnnnoooo…” and said that kind of proved he couldn’t trust his kids with someone like that. I sardonically feigned being insulted and said my sexual habits have nothing to do with my trustworthiness, it’s not like I would include THEM. In fact I started out with telling him who I was outright instead of keeping it a secret and just cheating. I could feel him loosening up and that he wanted to but he had to consider his kids first, whether I’d be a fixture in their lives like he needed or not and whether or not he even wanted that. So I told him I’d better get home and let him think about it while trying not to seem disappointed and we said bye and he walked me out. He flirtingly asked if he could get a bye kiss and I said as long as it weighs the scale in my direction and pulled him down to me by the neck of his shirt. We were making out, not just a little bye kiss and I felt his hands on my hips. I pulled one up and put it over one of my boobs and squeezed his hand to start him playing with it, and pulled away to make sure his kids couldn’t see. He was blocking the window and there wasn’t a view from the living room anyway. He squeezed my left tit a couple times before reaching his hand down inside and pulling it out to play while kissing me, and pinched my nipple a couple times. I brushed my hand over the hard bulge in his shorts while kicking the inside of my cheek seductively and told him that was a good kiss, pulled my dress over my exposed boob, got in my car and went home. We’ll find out..
It worked. We dirty texted the rest of the night and he said I got about a block before he said we’ll go for it and try some night this week. I asked if he meant the 5some or just going out and he said just us for now. He might be willing to have a 3some or something with another girl but not 5. I told J my date was a success and she said “ok”. That was it, “ok”. So she jelly but she accepts me. I told her I loved her and that I’d share and said “thank you” for letting me be me.
I was texting with PB and he mentioned he broke up with his gf, who I’d forgotten about. Apparently she’s needy, high maintainance and suspicious, and also won’t do alot of the things we do together. I reminded him that I’m just a weirdo, not being needy or high maintainance and she has a good reason to be suspicious, that he’d fucked 4 other girls while they were together. I said that all girls are needy and want to do stuff with their bfs, want to tell them about their drama ect and can’t be expected to do something they don’t want to do like anal, it’s not unreasonable to expect loyalty, ect. I kind of defended her position to him saying nothing about her seemed unworthy and when he asked me if he should try to get her back I said no and just to keep it in mind with the next one. This is why you shouldn’t have relationship expectations based on another one you were in. I hit him with a little elder wisdom.
And then I asked if he wanted to come over and get ridden by an adult, throwing a little shade at her after doing my part and defending her. He said yeah but he couldn’t cuz he had a Zoom meeting and later but he didn’t think he could be with another girl but me. I might have ruined that boy but I doubt what he says, when I’m not in the picture anymore he’ll be himself again. But right now he’s laying on charm like he’s never done like he’s looking to secure me as a gf for himself, so I’ll have to make it clear our relationship is as fwbs. Maybe I’ll set him up with another gf…
This had been a busy time so I’ll cut this entry short before something else happens 😉