This a story about how I told my wife I was interested in anal play. It turned out to be the most erotic experience of my life, up to this point. This is also my very first time writing/posting a story. It’s not very hot, and I’m not a very good writer. But, I am so turned on by the experience that I just need to tell it.
My wife is an amazing woman and has been very accepting and accommodating of my desires. We’ve been together for almost 20 years. Over the years, like most couples, our sex life has become pretty vanilla. About 5 years ago, as things began to get routine and boring, I started exploring kinky, risqué, and slightly taboo porn video and stories that turned me on. Over the years, I’ve explored exhibitionism/voyeurism, orgies/gangbangs, DP, and wife-sharing with BBC to name some. Up until recently, everything I’ve stumbled across has been, for me, just fantasy; nothing I would actually introduce into our sex life. My most recent find, however, has been a game changer for me.
For a while now, I’ve been turned on by the idea of anal sex with my wife, and using toys on her anally. A short time ago, I bought a training set of three metal, jeweled butt-plugs which I used on my wife. Shortly thereafter, I discovered pegging and couples anal-play online.
One day, while home alone, I got the urge to try them for myself. I tried all three. The smalles was okay, but ultimately too small. The largest was way too big for my beginner bottom. Like Goldilocks, I settled on the middle size and masturbated to completion. This experience made me feel really dirty, which turned me on. I also enjoyed the feeling of being full, and the feeling of doing something some might consider taboo. However, the round, metal base of the plug dug into my butt cheeks causing great deal of discomfort over the time it took for me to reach climax. Since then, I’ve used them a couple more times and experienced the same discomfort.
I felt a little ashamed of my thoughts and actions, and wasn’t sure how my wife would react, so I didn’t tell her. However, I continued to read stories about couples anal play, and my fantasies began to intensify. Here are some of those fantasies: my wife inserting a butt-plug into me during foreplay and fucking with it in; my wife taking control and pegging me; using a double-ended dildo together; and, having strangers (like at a swingers club) watch my wife and me using the double-ended dildo.
As a result of the intense arousal I experience from these fantasies, I started browsing Amazon and Aliexpress for more comfortable butt-plugs I could use on myself. I found a set of three plugs designed for comfort. Their shape is similar to the shape of a thumb, and they have an anchor base instead of a round base.
While searching for plugs, I also found several vibrators designed for couples and purchased two. One item I purchased is a u-shaped vibrator intended to be used together during sex. One end is to be inserted into the vagina to stimulate the g-spot while the other end rests on, and stimulates, the clitoris. The other item I purchased is a double-ended vibrating egg (two vibrating eggs connected by a 6″ silicone cord). Both sides vibrate and can be inserted vaginally or anally.
I place my order and waited with excitement. When my purchases came in, I could barely control my urge to use them. However, I wanted to present them to my wife and use them together. The next day, I did my best to get my wife worked up for a night of fun. The day passed slowly until it was finally time to put the kids in bed.
Things started like normal. Knowing something was up earlier, my wife had put on one of her sexy lingerie sets while I put the kids in bed. We waited a sufficient amount of time to be sure the kids were asleep, then things started to get hot. I proceeded as normal until we reached the point of penetration. At that point, I told my wife I had bought a couple things for us to use together, and asked her to wait a moment while I retrieved them.
First, I showed her the vibrating eggs. She was intrigued and expressed her interest in them. Next, I showed her the couples vibrator. This excited her a lot. My wife mostly orgasms from clitoral stimulation. So, the idea of the clit vibrator and g-spot stimulation, while I’m fucking her, really turned her on. Finally, I presented, to her, the butt-plug set. She found the shape and different sizes very interesting, and said she thought they would work nicely. Then, she asked, “Didn’t you get anything for yourself?” Here it was…the moment of truth.
I took one final breath as I committed myself to my following actions. I held the bag of butt-plugs in my hand, looked into my wife’s eyes, and said, “These, kind of, are for me.” I paused a moment to let that sink in. After a short pause, she asked,
“You mean because you’ll enjoy fucking me with them in?” To which I replied,
“That too. But, I actually mean that I want to use one while I fuck you. I was hoping this might turn you on, and you might want to be the one to put it in me.”
My wife got a surprised look on her face and responded, “Oh! Sure!”
With that, I exhaled a sigh of relief and began to get VERY excited at the prospect of what was about to happen. Since we were about to have sex, she asked “Do you want me to do it now?” Wow! I am SO turned on at this point! I can’t adequately explain how excited I was. I asked her how she wanted me and she told me to get on all fours.
This turned out to be an unanticipated bonus. I had been so anxious about telling her my fantasy that I hadn’t actually considered how she would insert it into me. In the almost 20 years we’ve been together, my wife has never seen me in this position, or seen my anus up close. I turned over, got on my knees then planted my hands on the mattress. I felt so exposed and vulnerable. My anus and balls were completely exposed for her to see, and she could do whatever she wanted. It was extremely erotic. I had never felt such a feeling before. Once that the reality of my situation had sunken in, I waited anxiously for what would come next.
My wife picked-up smallest plug (Side note: even as a beginner, the smallest plug is really too small. It’s smaller than my thumb, which has been up my ass before.) and lubed it up. Then I felt it; the cold steel pressed up against my anus. She rubbed it around my anus a little to spread the lube, then she began to very slowly insert it. Oh…My…GOD! It is not big at all, and it’s not even in yet, but just the experience of being on all fours, totally exposed and vulnerable, as my wife is penetrating me is SO HOT! She presses in and backs off a few times before finally pushing it all the way in.
And there it was. My wife had just inserted a butt-plug into me for the very first time. I was so excited, I immediately pushed my wife onto her back and began fucking her like a teenager. We fucked for a while but, even though I enjoyed the butt-plug, I really wanted my wife to do more with it. So, I asked her if she would like to play with it. She said yes in a way that made me think she was just doing it for me, but I later found out that she was really excited about it, but didn’t know how to react.
I laid back on the bed, and my wife began to play with my cock and balls, then timidly began to touch the plug. Neither of us really know what to do at that point, but my wife explored and eventually started fucking me with the plug while masturbating me. My wife really surprised me when, out of know where, she says “You like it when I fuck you?”
“What???”
Let me explain. Although we have explored it in the past, my wife and I have never really successfully mastered dirty talk. So basically, we don’t do it. So, those words coming out of her mouth sent a very erotic jolt though my body. I couldn’t believe it. I just nodded my head to which she replied, “Yeah, you like being fucked!” My head is spinning at this point and I finally engaged. Our dirty talk went on for several minutes until I eventually cum all over myself.
My wife milked me for a moment, smiled, then said “I’ll go get you a towel.”