“What is on today’s itinerary babe?” Asked Dawn as she reached out of the shower to grab her favourite big terrycloth towel.
Gary took a moment to watch her big tits jiggle as she dried her hair. Then she turned just enough to give him a view of her heart shaped ass as she bent to dry her legs. He couldn’t help but glance between her legs knowing he would see the lips of her slightly puffy pussy from behind, perfectly trimmed because he had trimmed it himself with pride.
Her every move was infused with a sensuality and sexuality that had become innate. Dawn had always been a sexy woman but in the two years since that first Hustler spread something about her had evolved. It wasn’t an affectation or act. The way she moved, the way she spoke, the way her eyes sparkled and the way her lip curled when she smiled, had changed slightly. Yet the impact was profound, intoxicating and mesmerising. At first, he thought the subtle changes were part of her “work” persona but now he was convinced that the work had just brought out her true sexual being. Natural as it was, she knew the effect she had on men, especially her husband, and she revelled in it.
“Sweetie?” She said standing to face him with a mischievous smile that showed him she knew he was lost in admiring her body.
“Oh. Sorry. You have that interview with Hot Wife Life at 10:00 a.m. They will want some photos to go with the dialogue, but it isn’t a full shoot. Also, Janet the winner of the Hot Wife photo contest is doing her big photo shoot at noon. Remember you agreed to meet her and give her some pointers, so I left the afternoon open for you. Then you have a dinner date with Reggie. He is on the monthly plan, but he left a generous tip in advance.” Dawn liked Reggie. He was a great client who couldn’t get enough of her. He would probably leave another tip after their date.
As usual Gary had two possible outfits laid out for Dawn. One was a Henley dress that didn’t even quite come halfway down her thighs. The other was a white cardigan that came down to just above her belly button and a very short brown leather skirt. Between the two was a leather choker, a leather g-string and a pair of 4″ heels with criss-cross pattern of suede straps which would go with either outfit. Gary had an innate feel for what was suitable to each of her engagements. Either of these outfits would complement her spectacular body without upstaging Janet on her big day.
Dawn chose the Henley dress and left the top three buttons undone such that the natural fall of her large tits strained against the fabric and exposed her full cleavage. Her large areolas were slightly darker behind the white fabric and her perky nipples were clearly visible evidence of her arousal.
Hot Wife Life had become something of a niche alternative lifestyle phenomenon since the time of Dawn’s first interview and photo shoots. The layouts were a big draw of course. But it had also become a forum for exploring sexuality from a uniquely female perspective. Dawn’s interviews were particularly provocative. She saw herself as a progressive and a feminist that delighted in tearing the preconceptions of other progressives and feminists to shreds.
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Amber was an aspiring journalist with a community college degree, no contacts and little experience. She was just 24 years old and recently engaged. When a friend of a friend introduced her to a lady at a party who offered her a chance to conduct an interview for Hot Wife Life, she jumped at the chance without thinking twice. A job was a job. The magazine thought using a complete novice who was unfamiliar with the lifestyle would add some dimension and spice to the content.
Blond, blue eyed and pretty in a girl next door sort of way was a deceiving look for Amber. She was adventurous, curious, and ambitious. As she did her research on the lifestyle and the magazine her interest was piqued. When she found out Dawn was to be her interviewee and learned more about Dawn, she became excited. Regardless of what anybody thought of the subject this was certainly out of the ordinary.
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Dawn arrived a bit early for the interview and sat perched on a tall barstool style chair with her legs crossed sipping a coffee as Amber arrived. She was in a large open area that included the set where the photo shoot would take place and a series of sitting areas and a refreshment bar off to the side. Dawn wasn’t vain, but she was aware of her role and how to project her image. She oozed sexuality in a way that made it seem the most healthy and natural thing in the world.
Amber came into the room from the entry lobby looking pretty but subtle. She wore tight jeans that hugged her lithe athletic body and a simple white tank top that hugged her perky B cup tits. She wore no bra and the whole scene excited her, so her nipples were erect and visible. The choice of black stilettos seemed to Dawn the perfect accompaniment — just enough oomph to take a very casual outfit and infuse it with some sexiness. The way she moved suggested an innate sensuality and she seemed to get prettier as she approached. Dawn was impressed.
Dawn stood up to greet Amber reaching out both arms to hers and kissing her on both cheeks. As Dawn’s soft warm breasts pressed up against her, Amber felt a flush of excitement. What she felt wasn’t admiration or awe or lack thereof. It was just that Dawn felt other worldly to her, and she was fascinated by her exploits.
“Hi Amber. Before we get started, I do hope that Gary let you know that there are a few other things going on here today and we might get interrupted a few times. I’ll give you all the time you need. I just don’t want you to think I am being rude.”
“Yes, he did let me know. He also said I could ask anything I want. Is this ok? I don’t want to offend you.”
“Sure. I may not answer (laughs). But I am not easily offended. Let’s get started. Do you mind if I start?”
“Sure.”
They both settled into their chairs and Amber turned on her recorder.
Dawn: Hi Amber. Just before we get going, I wanted to give our audience a bit of context. If I understand correctly, you are a freelance journalist. You have no affiliation with the Hot Wife Life magazine nor any background with the hot wife lifestyle. You are also newly engaged.
Amber felt a flush of pride at being referred to as a journalist. Few people gave her that respect.
HWL: Yes, that is correct. The editors thought I might add a fresh perspective. I hope that is ok.
Dawn: I think that it is wonderful idea.
HWL: To start, I just must get this out of the way for myself. You are a real honest to goodness hot wife. You have sex with men other than your husband, but he doesn’t have sex with other women. Is that correct?
Dawn: Yes, that is correct except I would modify it a bit. My husband does sometimes have sex with other women, but it is at my discretion and direction. We are also what is known as an FLR couple, which means female led relationship. It is quite common among hot wives.
HWL: Wow. I am a bit of a novice here, but this is fascinating to me. Now if I understand correctly your sexual activities go beyond this form of consensual non-monogamy. You are actively involved in making pornographic films, posing for graphic sexual pictures and you offer the girlfriend experience as well as the hot wife experience to a select clientele.
Dawn: That is right Amber.
HWL: I don’t wish to offend, but would it be fair to say that you are a hot wife who is also active in the sex trade?
Dawn: Yes, that is exactly right. And it is not offensive to me at all. I prefer that you approach it with that directness.
HWL: Well, I have lots to ask you, but I want to start by picking up on a bit of your service offering. Did you by any chance see the recent documentary on sugar baby dating?
Dawn: Yes.
HWL: You are rolling your eyes Dawn. I would have thought that would interest you as it is somewhat like the service you offer with the girlfriend experience?
Dawn: Yes. It is. Arguably sugar baby dating is a bit more focussed on the age differential, but it is otherwise much the same so the topic does interest me. And if the girls hadn’t been so wrapped up in convincing us and themselves that they aren’t selling sex we might have gotten a bit of insight.
HWL: You didn’t buy what they were saying?
Dawn: Who am I to judge them or their sugar daddies? I just think it is a bit silly to think sex or the possibility of sex isn’t a big part of the dynamic. I mean sure it isn’t a direct sex for cash trade and the women can decide whether they have sex on any given date. But let’s be realistic, most sugar daddies aren’t keen on a sugar baby who doesn’t put out.
HWL: Do you have sex with your girlfriend experience clients?
Dawn: If they want to, yes. My clients pay to date a sexually mature woman, not a cock tease. I wish we could just embrace it.
HWL: Embrace what?
Dawn: The sex trade. It seems like discussions of the sex trade always turn on finding some evil. It used to be that the women were harlots corrupting men. Now the men are all perverts and exploiters using naïve women. All the different variations are infused with a moral judgment that seems to preclude society from simply accepting it as a legitimate thing to do. Even the so called “progressive” documentarians’ minds aren’t open to the possibility that sugar baby dating is perfectly legitimate and nobody is being manipulated or harmed.
HWL: But surely you would agree that there is some harm in the sex trade?
Dawn: Of course, there is. And most of it is due to the legal restrictions and moralising that drive it to the fringes of society. Women have the tools and the know-how to work safely in the sex trade and help other women do likewise, but we aren’t allowed to use them. Not every woman in the sex trade is here under duress. I am not. Those girls in the documentary weren’t disadvantaged. They were lower middle-class citizens from stable backgrounds.
HWL: They were struggling to pay for university.
Dawn: So are lots of people. They just happen to have the looks to access an easier route. We all take advantage of the gifts we are given. The only reason a sugar baby or an escort is different is because society says it is so. But that goes well beyond the sex trade doesn’t it.
HWL: What do you mean?
Dawn: Society is rife with judgments about what sexual activities and lifestyles are acceptable or not, especially as it relates to women.
HWL: On that topic I’d like to go back to something you said a moment ago. You have sex with your girlfriend experience clients if they want to. Is it the same with all the men you date? Do you always have sex with them if they ask?
Dawn: No not always but usually. I don’t feel obliged to do what a man asks, even if he is a paying client. I would never accept the premise that if a man does something for me I ‘owe’ him sex. But I think women sometimes get too hung up on this point. We are anxious to assert our control over our own bodies which is obviously important or be seen a certain way by society which is a little more complex, but in the process find problems where none exist.
HWL: What do you mean?
Dawn: If a man indicated that he genuinely thought I owed him sex because he bought me dinner, I would refuse and probably never see him again. But I can’t even remember the last time I encountered a mature man who felt that way. What is the point in assuming every guy is an asshole until proven otherwise? There is no need to be so precious about it. My sex is not a limited commodity and sharing it doesn’t cost me anything. What happens if I fuck a guy or suck him off and nothing more comes of it, or the sex isn’t that great? Nothing. Who cares? It is like going to a restaurant and the food isn’t that good. Oh well. Don’t go back. I guarantee you will find a lot more culinary delights by being willing to try things.
HWL: I guess for some of us holding off before having sex is a way to gauge a man’s intentions. I also worry about getting a bad reputation.
Dawn: What do his intentions need to be?
HWL: Well, I don’t know. What if he is just using you for sex?
Dawn: So what? That is only a problem if my interest in him is conditional on something more. I am not obliged as a woman to want something different from sex than a man does. You can’t have sexual freedom if it is subject to the opinion of others. It is one or the other — be free and let people say what they want or be a slave to society’s sexual attitudes. Call me a slut. What of it?
HWL: I’d like to change topics a bit. You mentioned that society is still not accepting of many alternative lifestyles. I would argue that there is at least some acceptance of say open marriages, but being a hot wife introduces a notion that some people would say is unfair because only the wife gets to enjoy consensual non-monogamy. Could it be this unfairness that makes it less accepted? And why do you choose this approach rather than a fully open marriage?
Dawn: It is wrong to assume that equality and fairness are synonymous.
HWL: How so?
Dawn: It is all about what best suits each person and each couple. There are a variety of reasons why either partner might want consensual non-monogamy – they want more variety, have a higher appetite for sex than their partner, their sex life is in a rut, the spouse is a lousy lay, or whatever. But there are two factors that are unique to women — capacity and opportunity. Absent major health issues virtually every wife has a greater sexual capacity than her husband. It is just the nature of our anatomy. For a sexually desirous woman having more than one sexual partner may be the only feasible way of fulfilling her sexual desires. Meanwhile, women on average have much greater opportunity for sexual adventure owing largely to the nature and willingness of men.
HWL: Do you think that makes a hot wife and cuckold arrangement more natural?
Dawn: I wouldn’t quite say that. However, I would say that women are just as inclined towards sexual non-monogamy as men and have greater motivation and opportunity to give it a try. Recent studies suggest that we are more open to the idea as well. That doesn’t mean that the husbands shouldn’t engage in sexual non-monogamy as well, but they do have a different experience which is frequently not as rewarding or suitable as it is for their wives. So, what then? Should she be denied sexual fulfillment, or should they each seek to optimize their own situation? The former might be more equal, but the latter is fairer.
HWL: But doesn’t the wife’s dating activity take her away from her husband?
Dawn: Not if you remove his ego and expectation of exclusivity from the equation. We all have lots of relationships with people outside of our marriage which take up some of our attention. That is healthy. What difference does it make to my husband whether I have lunch with my sister (without my husband) or meet one of my lovers for a quick fuck at lunch time?
HWL: Fair enough, but why should the husband be denied similar latitude.
Dawn: He shouldn’t be. But if it isn’t fruitful for him that is no reason to deny his wife the opportunity to pursue her own sexual fulfillment. An open marriage is often a step on the way to a hot wife/cuckold arrangement.
HWL: Is that how most couples end up at a hot wife/cuckold arrangement? By way of a modified open marriage?
Dawn: Based upon our membership and various surveys I would say that about 1/2 of couples go that direction. The other 1/2 skip past the open marriage experiment and jump straight to it. The interesting thing is that out of those who jump straight to it, the husband is the one who initiates the shift most of the time whereas for those who first try an open marriage the wife is slightly more likely to initiate the move to consensual non-monogamy. The scenario where the wife initiates the change to open her side of the marriage while insisting that the husband remain exclusive is close to non-existent.
HWL: What do you think that means?
Dawn: The image of the cold-hearted bitch suppressing her husband while fucking other men is largely a myth. Refusing to subordinate her sexual needs is an act of liberation towards herself, not an act of aggression towards her husband. They are each living their reality.
HWL: Then how do you feel about cheating?
Dawn: I think that it is natural to want a loving relationship and a fulfilling sex life. Women are increasingly unwilling to give one up for the other. There was a book I read recently about why women cheat. Based upon numerous discussions with women who cheated the clear consensus was that they wanted a more varied and fulfilling sex life. And most were receptive to the idea of an open marriage. This is the reality of how many women feel about their sex life and they feel trapped between not being fulfilled sexually or being compelled to deceive. I don’t condone it, but I understand it.
HWL: So, what about all the other kinky stuff that permeates the online discussion of hot wives and cuckolds. Cock cages, humiliation, cream pies, etc. Where does that come into play?
Dawn: That is a separate set of kinks and fetishes. They aren’t part of the lifestyle per se but they are common fetishes among cuckolds. Remember that 1/2 of hot wife and cuckold arrangements are initiated by the man. The cuckolds are into the notion of watching their wife fuck other men. It is a fetish that is somewhat analogous to BDSM in the sense that you may not understand it, but you know that the bottom or the submissive is a willing and enthusiastic participant. A lot of those fetishes are initiated by the cuckold. It is a sort of psychological BDSM.
HWL: What about the other 1/2 of couples?
Dawn: Some never indulge those kinks. Many become curious and the necessary opening of the mind that the couple experiences will tend to induce them to start experimenting.
HWL: How is it with you and your husband?
Dawn: Gary? I think we are sort of a hybrid. It was technically me who initiated the move to becoming a hot wife, but only after he had come to accept my cheating and encourage me to pose for Hustler. And frankly if he had insisted on a reciprocal arrangement I would have readily agreed.
HWL: So why did you suggest a hot wife and cuckold arrangement rather than an open marriage?
Dawn: Good question. I never really thought about it. The approach just seemed the most natural to both of us, I think. He already knew I had cheated on him. I was entirely in the wrong and never pretended otherwise. But he was very forgiving and understanding and there was never any notion of him wanting to ‘even the score’. I think we both knew intuitively that I had a greater need to broaden my sexual horizons and would have more opportunity to do so. He understood this before I did. That is the way it is for a lot of couples.
HWL: I thought you said that the scenario where the wife initiates the move to the hot wife lifestyle is close to non-existent.
Dawn: No, I said the scenario where the wife insists that only her side of the marriage be open is close to non-existent. My point was directed at those who think of couples in this lifestyle as a bitchy wife and a downtrodden husband. That just isn’t true or at least not 99% of the time.
HWL: Do you and Gary indulge in any of the cuckold kinks I have read about?
Dawn: Yes, some of them. At first, he was just a supportive cuckold. He loved the fact that I was so sexual and for him that went hand in hand with having multiple partners. Cuckolds tend to have a sanguine and open-minded approach to sexuality. They are compelled to let go of certain preconceptions about their role and their wife’s sexuality. As those barriers come down, they see everything in a new light.
HWL: Can you give me an example?
Dawn: Sure. Traditionally guys are extremely sensitive to their proximity to another man’s sex. Having a threesome with a woman where they are both erect or kissing a woman who has just kissed another man (or sucked him off) or having sloppy seconds elicits a sense of something vaguely homosexual which they feel compelled to buffer. It is as if anything they do that is remotely close to the line means ‘that’s it I am gay now.’ And other men and women will judge them on that basis which I think is a terrible shame. Cuckolds take the latitude to understand that their sexuality is more complex than that because they have already pushed past basic preconceptions. For instance, a common cuckold fantasy is clean-up where he licks another man’s cum from his wife’s pussy. It is a wonderfully erotic experience for husband and wife that is often completely misunderstood.
HWL: How so?
Dawn: Because the male centric view of the world is that this is an act of submission or humiliation relative to the other man. Guys think that it is between them as to whom is dominant. But in the scenario I just described the hot wife is at the centre of things and her strongest connection is to her cuckold. The other man is part of the supporting cast so to speak. There is an affection and connection amongst all parties, so I don’t mean to diminish that other man, but the premise that he is there because he is the “better” man is fundamentally flawed. The hot wife’s sexual fulfillment is front and centre and that comes from variety and exploration, not a “better” man. That approach benefits everyone.
HWL: Is the other man ever better sexually?
Dawn: It depends how you define better. He may have a bigger cock or more stamina. There is no question those things appeal to many hot wives. It is well known that I like big dicks. But that is just one aspect of my sexuality, and it isn’t more important than the others. It also depends on the couple. I am not going to lie to you. In some cases, the cuckold is sexually inadequate or sub-par, but that probably isn’t any more prevalent than it is in monogamous marriages. The difference is that in a hot wife marriage that reality is addressed by giving the wife latitude to fulfill her sexual needs rather than by disregarding her sexual needs so that the husband can avoid facing his own shortcomings.
HWL: I think that most guys have a hard time imagining how this is a benefit to them.
Dawn: Reality is that the biggest factor suppressing female sexual desire is the constraints society has put on us. Many wives who lose interest in sex have simply become bored with the sex that is available to them and/or they find their husband’s view of their sexuality to be too limiting. Most of our members report a marked increase in wives’ sexual engagement and husbands’ (cuckolds’) sexual satisfaction after she becomes a hot wife.
HWL: Do you think that those roles can be reversed?
Dawn: Yes, I do. The dynamics and motivations may be different. But it is equally valid for a husband to not be getting what he wants in the marriage and for there to be a net benefit to him taking a lover. I focus on the hot wife dynamic because that is my experience, not because I think it is the right way for everybody. Although I do believe that there is generally a difference between men and women in terms of acceptance or at least awareness.
HWL: I don’t understand.
Dawn: For the most part women know that their husbands have desire for other women. Most expect their husbands to resist that desire, and many can be remarkably dismissive of their husband’s sexual desires even to the point that I would call it callous. But it is almost exclusively men that indulge the delusion that their spouse is somehow incapable or completely disinclined to even consider a sexual dalliance outside the marriage.
HWL: Why do you think that is?
Dawn: Female sexuality can be intimidating for men. They have been conditioned to see themselves as dominant and in control. Yet their competitive side knows that in most cases they could never keep pace with their wife in terms of sexual activity if she was motivated, so they convince themselves that she is not.
HWL: Are any of your clients married and does this feed back into the sex trade discussion?
Dawn: Yes. That is very observant. Some of my clients are married. The more enlightened wives see me as a natural outlet for their husbands. The fact that I am a happily married woman who has no intention of or motivation to take their man away helps. Some married men come to me discretely. I think that if couples embraced the sex trade it could take a lot of pressure off marriage.
HWL: Could you see women using the services of a sex trade worker?
Dawn: Sure. However, the reality is that we are less likely to need it. In most cases the only thing standing between us and whatever it is we want sexually is our own willingness to go after it. Speaking of women who go after what they want, I see that Janet has arrived for her photoshoot. Let’s take a little break ok Amber. Come on. I’ll introduce you.
Janet was a stunning redhead that looked to be in her mid to late 30’s. She wore thigh high black stockings, patent-leather black stilettos, a very short blue pleated tartan skirt and a white blouse tied in a knot just under her impressively large tits. Her panties weren’t quite visible but there was obviously no bra. She had a diamond string about an inch long in her bellybutton piercing and obvious studs in her nipples. She also wore a black leather choker and a hot wife anklet on her right ankle. Her hair was in a ponytail high on her head. It was a modified schoolgirl look.
The whole ensemble seemed more like fetish wear than something a woman would wear in daily life. Maybe it was for the photoshoot, but she had obviously worn it from home. Janet projected a confidence that defied judgment. At a glance, you could see that she owned her sexuality fully and didn’t care what anybody thought about it.
When Dawn approached her the two hot wives put their arms around one another’s waist, pressed their tits together and kissed. As their tongues intertwined Amber heard a slight involuntary groan off to the side. It was a cameraman. She had been so transfixed on the two women that she hadn’t noticed him.
“Janet, I’d like you to meet Amber. She is interviewing me for the magazine.”
“It is a pleasure to meet you.” Said Janet as she gave Amber a light hug and a soft kiss on the lips.
Standing with those two women, Amber felt for a moment as if she was one of them and it was exhilarating.
“Amber, Janet became a member a little over a year ago and I knew right away we had to get this gorgeous creature in front of the camera.”
“Any pointers Dawn?” Asked Janet, seemingly anxious to get to business.
“Personally, I think that authentic is best. My approach is to just enjoy fucking the guys and ignore the camera. You need to keep it in mind a little bit but only to the degree that you orient yourself so he has a good view of the action. But don’t worry about posing or acting for it unless you want to. Don’t do that thing the girls so often where they put on a fake sultry look and pose in a way that you would never pose in real life.”
“Sounds good.”
“Also let’s have this look like a real group session. I don’t know about you but a cock in every hole and one in each hand is impractical and distracting. Likewise, I don’t need to have guys stand around in a line jerking off liking they are queuing up to order a sandwich. I typically fuck one or two guys at a time while the others keep themselves entertained. Manage it however you like. And just ignore those silly ass porn tropes.”
“Thanks Dawn. That makes it a lot easier to imagine all of this for the cameras.”
“The audience wants to see a hot wife enjoying sex. The best way to show them that is to actually enjoy fucking the guys. By the way who did you get?”
“I think it is five black guys from that interracial film company, but I don’t know them.”
“Classic. What hot wife doesn’t love an interracial group sex? I probably know some of them.”
“I get the whole ‘be natural’ approach, but how do I start the scene?”
“If I were you, I would just treat the set like your living room. Either you be here waiting for them or have them all assembled then you come in.”
“I was thinking of having Todd in the picture as well. Do you think that is suitable?” She glanced to a man who had entered the room and was standing off to the side with a suitcase.
“Perfect. It is rare to get a legitimate cuckold in the pictures. I guarantee there will be thousands of men drooling with envy wishing they were him.”
“How far should we take it?”
“All the way honey. Get that cuckold naked, caged, lapping up cream pies and sucking black dick.”
“Todd has some outfits.”
“I think what you are wearing is fine. It is going to end up in a ball on the floor soon anyway. Todd, I want you to be very solicitous just like you would be if this was your own home. Offer drinks, call the men sir and so on.”
“Is there sound too? I thought this was just stills, not video.”
“It is mostly, but we do have a series of unmanned video cameras catching the action. And I find that fully playing the role puts everyone in a good mindset. It is perfect that you haven’t met the guys yet. I suggest that you go into the change room. Todd will get them all set up out here and when you come out the cameras will be rolling, and it will capture the first meeting and carry on from there.”
Janet smiled, gave Dawn another kiss and headed off to the change room. Todd scurried after her.
“Todd is what you would call a deep cuckold. He embraces every fetish imaginable. It is rare to find a cuckold willing to be photographed in this situation, but I can tell he is stoked for it. When they start, watch him closely. I have seen him ejaculate just from the mental excitement of it all without even touching himself.”
“We get to watch?”
“Yes. If you want to.”
“Absolutely. This is fascinating.”
“Most people get the wife’s side of hotwifing, but don’t really understand the cuckold. This will give you a different perspective. You may not understand or relate to it, but the reality of it is compelling and clear.”
Just then there was a bit of a commotion in the lobby. Moments later five fit good-looking black men entered the room. As soon as they saw Dawn, they made a beeline towards her and Amber. She obviously knew the first four because she greeted them each by name, wrapped her arms around their neck and gave each an open mouth kiss. Then she got to the last man.
“You don’t get the full greeting if I don’t know you.” She said holding out her hand. “I am Dawn.”
“I am Sean.” He said taking her hand.
“Well then now we know each other.” Dawn smiled and wrapped her arms around his neck. She gave him a longer kiss than the others, making out with him for several seconds. When she released the lip-lock she kept her arm around his waist.
“Ok fellas, we are going to set you up in here just like this is happening at home. You will be naked, and Janet will enter the room. Her cuckold will be involved throughout. He is very submissive and fetish oriented. Does anybody mind if he wants to suck your cock?”
They all shrugged and shook their heads. Then one of the men turned towards Amber and looked her up and down. She could feel the lust pulsating off him. “Are you Janet?”
“Oh no this is Amber. She is doing an interview. How rude of me not to introduce her.”
Then Dawn made a point of introducing her to each man. She moved forward and offered her hand to the first man. He took it but also pulled her in for a peck on the cheek. She was flushed with excitement by the time she had met all five of them. She wished she had the courage to kiss them the way Dawn had.
“Ok fellas. One last thing. I know I don’t need to say this, but I will anyway. The hotwife is the centre of the action. She is a queen. She is in control not you. Don’t hate fuck her. Don’t force your cock down her throat — let her take it herself. A bit of roughness and man handling is fine but not disrespectful. Also, she won’t be posing or mugging for the camera. Just fuck her the way you would if you were in her living room at home. Understand?”
“They all nodded.”
Dawn went to Janet’s dressing room while the other men stripped down. She returned with Todd in tow. Literally he was naked except for a cock cage and Dawn led him on a leash that was round his cock and balls.
“Offer the men a drink or snack cuckold. The bar is over there. Gentlemen Janet will be out in about 15 minutes.”
Dawn went over to give the photographer a kiss then came and sat with Amber. Almost right away Sean approached them. He was naked now and Amber couldn’t help but look at his large semi-flaccid cock. It must have been at least 8″ and he wasn’t even hard.
“Hi Dawn.”
“Hi Sean.” She got out of her seat and boldly reached for his cock. She took his balls in one hand and traced her other hand along the length of it before slowly stroking the shaft. “What can I do for you sweetie.”
He gasped a bit. Amber could tell that even he was a bit taken aback. “I just wanted to say I am a big fan, and I was wondering if maybe I could take you out some time.”
“I think that might be possible. Here hold this.” Dawn said to Amber.
Amber jumped out of her seat and reached for Sean’s now rigid cock. It was nearly a foot long and she couldn’t get her hands all the way around it. Her face flushed as she looked down at it then up at Sean who smiled back at her.
Dawn reached for her phone. “What is your number, Sean?”
She entered the digits as he gave them to her, then entered a message and hit send. “There. I sent you a text. You can just respond to that later and we will sort something out. Don’t be surprised if my husband responds. He manages my schedule.”
The conversation was over, but Amber kept stroking that big cock until Dawn gently reached out and took it away from her. Then she gave Sean another intimate kiss and sent him on his way.
“Have you ever had one that big before?”
“I’ve never even seen one that big.”
“It is natural to want it you know.”
“Does it hurt?”
“Not if you do it right. As you get stimulated the vaginal canal expands and if you learn to relax your muscles, he will slide right in. The sensation is out of this world.”
“Is it that much better?”
“I wouldn’t put it that way. Sometimes it is too much. But once you experience it you will want to keep coming back to it periodically. It stays on the menu forever. Whether you ever indulge that desire or not I highly recommend that you acknowledge it to yourself. I can tell even now that you are curious.”
“Yes I am. Is it true? What they say about black guys?”
“Only a little. These guys are not at all representative of black men overall. Black cocks are a bit bigger on average but there are plenty of big white cocks and plenty of modest sized or small black cocks. Have you never been with a black man?”
“No.” Long pause. “How many men have you been with Dawn?”
“I have lost count. Certainly, in the hundreds. But it isn’t hard to get to that number when being filmed in group sex scenes is part of your living.”
“Why do you have a thing for black men Dawn?”
“I don’t. I mean I like them, but I don’t have a thing for them any more than any other race. Where did you get that idea?”
“Oh sorry. Just all the research I did on you led me to believe that.”
“No need to be sorry Hun. Black men fucking married white women is very popular in the hotwife genre, so I think it gets overrepresented in the content we produce. We try to balance it out, but we are running a business so if our audience wants to see me fuck black guys, I’m not complaining. But I personally don’t have a racial preference and while I am known to be a bit of a size queen, it isn’t all about big cocks either.”
Dawn and Amber sat quietly for a few moments watching Todd serve drinks to the five well hung black men who were about to fuck his wife. It all seemed so surreal to Amber. It was a bit intimidating, but at the same time she could now easily picture herself in Janet’s place. A creeping desire entered her consciousness, and she began to feel like it might be permanent.
They heard the click, click, click of Janet’s heels before they saw her come into view. She wore the same outfit that she arrived in. She walked slowly but purposefully up to the first man and wrapped her arms around his neck. While his tongue probed her mouth his hands pulled up her skirt and revealed her ass. It hadn’t been clear whether she wore panties when she first arrived, but she wasn’t wearing any now. After a moment she moved on to the next man. They each took their turn kissing and groping her while her husband watched unacknowledged.
When she was well acquainted with each of them, she sat on the couch and motioned for two of the men to sit on either side of her. She grabbed each of their cocks and started stroking. Meanwhile they each grabbed one of her legs, picked them up and draped them over their own legs. Todd stared on with rapt attention as these studs spread his wife out before him. One man started fingering her pussy while the other squeezed her tits and nibbled on her neck. As her pulse quickened a third man got between her legs and started to lick her pussy. Soon a flush spread across her chest, her nipples stood out hard and erect, her back arched and she threw her head back. She sat there trembling for a few seconds then regained her composure.
She looked to the man on her right and said. “I want you inside of me now.”
Amber was reminded of what Dawn had said. Evidently Janet was warmed up now and ready to receive those big dicks. The foreplay had been brief, but it was easy for her as a woman to imagine that the whole setting itself was very arousing because she was aroused watching it.
The other men moved to the side as Janet got to her feet then swung one leg over the lap of the guy still seated. She positioned herself over him reverse-cowgirl style and held his big cock in place as she slowly lowered herself onto it. To Amber it just seemed like too much cock. This guy was twice the length and twice the girth of her fiancé.
While Janet took her time, she unbuttoned her blouse and peeled it off. She had obviously done this before. She rode up and down on him, taking a bit more with each stroke. When he was 3/4 inside her the ecstasy on her face was clear. Suddenly she seemed to have mastered him and she wiggled the rest of the way down until she was fully impaled on his fat cock. Now she picked up the pace pumping him faster and harder as she beckoned one of the other men forward. He stood in front of her offering his dick for sucking.
At first, she just worked the head with her lips and stroked his long thick shaft. Two hands on a big black dick with plenty still available for sucking made for a great visual. But soon she did with her throat what she had just done with her pussy — she slowly took him deeper and deeper. When his cock hit the back of her throat, she let it rest there for a moment then pushed it past her gag reflex. Once it was past that point it slid all the way down her throat in one go. Amber gasped.
Janet was slobbering and drooling and slurping her way through a sloppy blowjob while riding a huge cock. She had gone from seeming almost delicate as if they might hurt her to a wanton sexual animal able to consume them.
She picked up the pace of her hips as she rode that cock to ejaculation while providing lots of good photo opportunities with the cock in front of her. When the man beneath her finally arched his back and pumped his load deep into her cunt she immediately told the man she had been sucking off to take his place. She slipped the skirt off and swung her leg over his lap. Everyone could see that her pussy lips were puffy and wet with cum. She mounted him like she had the other man.
Now she took a different tact. She had both hands on the knees of the man beneath her as another man present a cock in front of her. She used only her mouth and pussy to pump those two cocks, but each orifice was focussed, and she had the perfect rhythm. Like a conductor she had total control. The men were just experiencing her as she drew out their cum in synchronicity with her own orgasm. She put particular focus on the cock she was sucking to catch him up to where she and the other man were on their journey to orgasm. Her body started to shudder just as the other two men tensed. One came deep in her cunt again and the other shot his load in her mouth. She made a point of letting some of it leak out so that it dribbled down her chin and onto her tits as she looked at the camera. Then she swallowed the rest.
One might have expected her to be spent and exhausted. But her lascivious smile and bright eyes told a different story. Her motor was really running now and there was no stopping her. She leaned back against the man beneath her and turned her head to kiss him then she slid off the side of his lap so that she was seated on the couch.
“Cuckold come and lick me clean.”
Todd hastened to obey. Her pussy was drenched in cum and more was leaking out in great globs. He slurped it all up hungrily. It wasn’t like some of those porn videos where the guy just smears it around. Todd understood his task and fully expected to finish the day with a belly full of cum.
“Good boy. Now go get the lube.”
The two men who had been watching up until now were up next. She ordered one to lie on the floor. She stood over him with a smile then knelt on all fours kissing him all along the length of his body until she was hovering over him face to face. She took hold of his cock and pointed it towards her pussy. Once he was inside her she turned to Todd and told him to lube up the other man’s cock. That man didn’t need to be told to fuck her in the ass. He eased it in slowly, giving her a chance to relax and yield to him, but soon he was pounding her hard as she begged them to fuck her raw.
When those two guys were done with her, she crawled on all fours to where Sean was seated. She went to work sucking his dick while another man came up behind her and started fucking her doggy style. The spit-roast position makes for great pictures. She took her time with Sean, lavishing attention on his balls and edging his cock. The other two guys had finished inside of her, and her pussy and ass were exposed and dripping with cum while she finished with Sean. When she finally nursed another thick load from Sean, she decided it was time for a little break.
She sat between two of the guys, snapped her fingers and called out. “Cuckold. Come and lick me clean again.”
He obeyed.
“Now fetch refreshments.”
For 15 or 20 minutes everybody just mingled and flirted. Janet was still wearing her thigh highs and heels. She looked impossibly sexy and slutty.
When the break was over Janet announced that she wanted the guys to run a train on her. She would lay back on the couch and they would each fuck her one after the other. And although it was hardly necessary Todd would be a fluffer — he would suck each guy hard or make a show of doing it right before they fucked her. She spent the next hour plus on her back with her legs permanently spread wide getting plowed by one big black cock after another. All five had cum in her when Todd licked her clean again.
Janet could tell that the men were running out of cum. She told each man to choose how they would fuck her one last time. Two chose doggy style with her bent over a table and three choose anal with her on all fours. She happily obliged. One after another they each mounted Todd’s wife one last time and she took them all with tits bouncing, smile of ecstasy and lascivious moans of pleasure. When they were all done Sid had them all pose for a few more photos — the smiling pretty white wife surrounded by five hung black men is always a favourite.
Three of the men left. Sean and another guy named Marcus stayed to chat with Dawn and Amber.
Then Janet did something that really floored Amber. She told Todd to lay on his back on the couch, pulled a strap on out of their bag, put it on and proceeded to peg him in front of everyone. Sid immediately started taking photos. Once she had a big black dildo deep in his ass, she unlocked his cock cage and jerked him off until he came all over himself. Then she licked the cum off him, told him he was a good boy and put the cage back on.
“Wow. That was crazy. What a great finish Janet. I know this set is going to be gold.”
Janet and Todd went to clean up. Dawn sent Sean on his way telling him she needed a few moments with Sid. Once he left, she went to Sid. They had a quick discussion after which Dawn squat down, unzipped has pants, pulled them down and took out his cock. As she took him into her mouth and slowly moved up and down on his hard shaft a calm quiet came over the space. It was just Sid, Dawn, Amber and Marcus who now approached Amber. They chatted for a few minutes before he asked for her number. She knew she shouldn’t do it, but she didn’t want to resist. She gave him her number knowing full well where it would lead.
It was about 4:30 in the afternoon. As Marcus walked away Amber could tell that Dawn had almost finished with Sid. He held her head gently and bucked a little as he shot his load into her mouth. From the side Amber could see a slight smile on Dawn’s face as she swallowed his cum. As Dawn made her way back over to her, Amber’s head was swimming, but she wasn’t done the interview. Dawn’s date wasn’t until later in the evening so they agreed that they could carry-on until 6:00 p.m.
HWL: Thank you for letting me witness that photoshoot. It was not at all what I expected.
Dawn: You are welcome. What did you expect?
HWL: I guess I don’t know, but I imagined a whole contrived set-up. Pictures that are staged and quite divorced from what is happening in the moment. But that seemed more about watching Janet fulfill a fantasy and the cameras just happen to be there to capture it.
Dawn: She has had the experience many times before, so the only new fantasy part was having it captured in photos.
HWL: Really? Is this common among hot wives?
Dawn: If we want it to be.
HWL: How many times do you think she orgasmed?
Dawn: At least a dozen.
HWL: Wow. That is close to a year’s worth for me.
Dawn: Careful. Your fiancé might read this.
HWL: Right. We talked earlier about the girlfriend experience. I think I get what that is. A man pays you to pretend you are his girlfriend.
Dawn: In my case I don’t think I would quite put it that way. See I am not much of an actress, and I prefer to spend my time with men that I genuinely like.
HWL: So, then what is the difference between a man who pays to date you and one who doesn’t?
Dawn: Good question. It is kind of a blurred line. Most of my paying dates were selected from those that made applications. They would never have met me otherwise. Or they are guys like Reggie, my date tonight. Sid introduced Reggie to me at a party. We hit it off right away and went on a couple regular dates — no payment. But as is the case with most guys I was too busy to see him more often than now and then, so he asked me if he could start paying in order to secure more regular access.
HWL: How does that work? Does he pay by the date?
Dawn: No. My clients and I prefer consistency, so the guys who subscribe to the girlfriend experience pay a monthly “allowance” for which they get a guaranteed minimum amount of access and attention. Gary manages all that for me so that we ensure nobody gets neglected. It all averages out over the year and he makes sure that everyone gets more than their minimum.
HWL: So, it is a flat rate service?
Dawn: Yes, but guys can purchase different packages. And most also pay generous tips to ingratiate themselves. These are men of means so it is quite lucrative.
HWL: You gave Sean your number earlier. Does he not have to pay because he is a stud, or I guess you call him a bull with a big cock?
Dawn: I don’t use that term. I don’t really like it because I think that it comes from that notion of a woman seeking a ‘better’ man than her husband. No that isn’t why he doesn’t pay. I guess he doesn’t pay for the same reason that Sid the photographer didn’t pay when I sucked him off earlier. They are in my life in other ways either personally or by virtue of my work or whatever. I think maybe there is a notion of capacity and willingness to pay. Reality is that I make a lot of money from those dates and if I didn’t, I would need to focus my work elsewhere to make a living which would mean I would not be available for as many dates. The guys who pay are for the most part those that would be dropped from my roster if that weren’t the case.
HWL: Do you have good sex with your paying dates?
Dawn: Oh yes. I don’t need to have sex with duds to make a living. I’m fortunate that way. I should also say that I give the paying dates more latitude to decide what we do. It isn’t completely up to them, but frequently they have something specific in mind and I will oblige unless I really have a strong objection.
HWL: What is the hot wife experience? At first, I thought it would be guys paying to be the stud, but you already said you aren’t much of an actress.
Dawn: No. You saw those guys today. You held Sean’s big dick in your hands. Can you imagine me pretending some average man is comparable to that? Even if I was a good actress, I doubt it would be believable. No, the hot wife experience is for men who want to know what it would be like to be married to a hot wife.
HWL: You mean aspiring cuckolds?
Dawn: Yes. There is big demand among our readership.
HWL: What is that like?
Dawn: It is a bit like being a dominatrix but with a unique set of kinks.
HWL: Doesn’t that involve being a bit of an actress?
Dawn: Not so much. The things I do, I do for them. I don’t need to pretend to get off on it. Gary and I have been experimenting more with it, so I try to use the opportunity to learn. Frankly it is the smallest part of my business but there is huge demand. It takes a lot more work and planning both to bring the aspiring cuckold into the right frame of mind and to get myself into the right frame of mind, especially if the man wants me to be psychologically rough with him. Plus, we often need to find the other participants.
HWL: What do you mean?
Dawn: A lot of cuckolds both real and aspiring still see this lifestyle through their own lens. They need to be taught that it is about putting the wife at the centre of the narrative, not for her to be the cuckold’s ‘personal porn star’ which makes her a prop in his fantasy. I don’t mind indulging that sometimes but that isn’t the essence of it all. And the actual experience does require other men. If I draw one of these studs into the experience, they get paid too.
HWL: That sounds like a lot of work.
Dawn: It is but Gary mostly takes care of all of that. Honestly, I think he gets it more than I do. We haven’t mastered it yet, but it is fun, lucrative and educational for me.
HWL: Can we go back to your date tonight? Reggie. I don’t want to get too personal, but I am very curious what he is like, how he fits into all this and what his motivations are?
Dawn: Sure. I am glad you asked because he provides an interesting example of how the hotwife lifestyle defies a lot of traditional thinking about our sexuality. Reggie is a 6’1″ handsome British man. He is articulate, interesting and very wealthy. He has no trouble attracting women. And for the money he spends on me he could hire the best prostitutes to do anything he wants. But he sees the unique nature of what a hot wife offers.
HWL: And what is that?
Dawn: An objectively authentic intense sexual desire. Most women who want to woo him are looking for a long-term commitment and/or money. Whatever sexual desire they express is at least partially motivated by those factors. And rarely will they be even a fraction as sexually adventurous as I am. Meanwhile prostitutes are providing a service for money. There is nothing wrong with that, but that dampens any sense that they want to be with him. Contrary to conventional thinking mature men are interested in more than just sex acts. They want to be with sexually adventurous women who want to be with them. Hot wives are the epitome of that because all the pressures and motivation in our lives pushes us away from indulging our sexual desires, yet we do so anyways precisely because our sexual desire is authentically intense. One of our primary characteristics is our embrace of the kind of sexual desire, engagement and adventurousness so rare among women and so desired by men.
HWL: But he is paying you? Doesn’t that dilute that feeling for him.
Dawn: No. Look at how it came about. I dated him, fucked him and blew his mind not only with what I did for him but with how much I enjoyed it myself. He then learned that his access to me would be limited because I am so busy with work and sexual activity with other men. Then he asked to become a paying client so that he could have greater access to me. He isn’t paying me to perform sex acts that I wouldn’t otherwise perform. He is paying for access to a woman he already knows to be highly sexually desirous.
HWL: How do the “other men” register with your lovers and clients? Most guys are not wired to accept that premise.
Dawn: For me part of being a hot wife is putting that right out there for all to see. There is no room for confusion. As a result, all the men in my life — husband/cuckold, lovers, clients, readers — understand my sexual proclivities as being an intrinsic part of my nature. In fact, it is part of what they find appealing. My husband sometimes describes me in feline terms. He says I am like a friendly bobcat — not dangerous, but certainly not domesticated and everyone knows not to expect otherwise.
HWL: Ok, I want to shift gears. Do I understand correctly that you are one of the founders of Hot Wife Life?
Dawn: No, but when I got involved, the whole thing was sort of nascent. I was new on the scene, and they had no money, so I agreed to barter services for equity. Originally it was barely even a publication. It was a low-quality website set up by a couple of cuckolds to share their stories and pictures. It was all user generated content which was crap. Like most porn it was by men for men.
HWL: Is your goal to target a female audience?
Dawn: I’d like to think that we are female friendly, but our male audience is still substantially larger than our female audience. However, my comments were addressing content generation. We are all about genuine hot wife content. Wives weren’t motivated to post or participate because of the poor quality, misguided premises and lack of earning potential.
HWL: Is about the money for them too?
Dawn: For some it is. Reality is that if a wife like me is going to be exposed, I need to make enough money for it to be a living. Otherwise, the stigma and judgment associated with this lifestyle choice would cause too many problems in my regular job. Others like Janet have a wealthy husband who wants her to indulge this aspect of herself. One way or another we all need to allow for how this can affect people’s view of us. I don’t much care what people think of me, but I do still need to live in the world.
HWL: You mentioned quality and misguided premises as other issues that needed to be addressed. I can see that you have good production quality, but are the premises of these scenes realistic? Isn’t this still mostly fantasy?
Dawn: Let me first speak to quality. We have invested in production quality. But the choice of wives we feature is important. Janet is a real hot wife that people want to look at because she is gorgeous. And she wants to be presented in a flattering way. We aren’t trying to pretend that every hot wife looks like that any more so than any magazine portrays a perfectly representative image of the general population. Truth is that our audience — male and female — wants us to present visuals that have been curated for optimal appeal rather than just whatever mediocre images random guys want to post. And there are aspects to that presentation that will appeal more to women whether as audience or as the person in front of the camera.
HWL: What do you mean by that?
Dawn: That gets into the premise of our visuals and whether they are realistic. There are a couple of layers to that. Janet is more attractive than your average wife and groups of well hung handsome black men aren’t just popping by every wife’s house daily, so those parts are idealized. But she really did have sex with them, there really are hot wives who enjoy group sex, and it is usually pre-arranged with a known set of participants just like we did here. This is all part of a fetish lifestyle that is uncommon, but it is real, and the interactions are more like what really occurs in this lifestyle. Compare that to the premise of some dumb chick putting on booty shorts and hanging out at a basketball court in the ‘hood’ offering herself up to be fucked and treated like garbage by random black guys. Why would a gorgeous mature woman like Janet do that or even relate to it as anything other than a stupid way of engaging her genuine desire for multi-partner sex?
HWL: How prevalent do you think it is for women to be turned on by a gang bang?
Dawn: That is where we at Hot Wife Life differ. For us the idea of a “gang bang” is a male centric term that implies women being stupid and careless and allowing men to disrespect, shame and abuse them. That is the stuff women don’t like. Being turned on by multi-partner sex is very common among women. The fetish dynamics you saw here today are less common, but still not as rare as you might imagine.
HWL: Dawn I must admit that I am fascinated by all of this and could probably talk to you for hours. However, you have already been very generous with your time, and I know you have plans this evening. Can I ask about one more thing?
Dawn: Yes of course.
HWL: You mentioned readers as well as members throughout this conversation. Can you elaborate a little more on your audience.
Dawn: Sure. I am glad you asked. Our readership is simply the subscribers to our e-magazine. We are into six figures now and our growth has been accelerating. Our members belong to our lifestyle club. The club provides them with real life services and benefits based upon their defined status – hot wife, aspiring hot wife, cuckold, aspiring cuckold, stud, sugar daddy, etc. The biggest part of what we provide is validations, introductions, group events and information sessions.
HWL: Can you provide me with some examples?
Dawn: Sure. What you just witnessed with Janet was put together by the club. We found the men, ensured they were disease free and validated their and her suitability for the event. It was a bit more obvious here because we were able to draw on guys that we have worked with many times before for photo shoots. Meanwhile she is gorgeous so it was reasonably obvious that all parties would have a good time and make for a good shoot. But for the rest of our membership — for whom multi-partner sex is a common request – all parties involved want to know that they are getting what they want. That involves broaching some sensitive topics which most people couldn’t ask a stranger and it involves some sensitive judgments about an individual’s suitability for a given role.
HWL: Does that mean membership needs to be exclusive?
Dawn: Yes. But I think that the most important factors are respect for others and a realistic self-image. Three out of four guys who aspire to be studs for a hot wife are not suitable or not in the way they imagine themselves to be. For instance, when Janet won our contest, and everyone knew she would be doing a photoshoot we got hundreds of requests to participate from our membership base and hundreds more submissions to become member studs. Many of the guys who submitted to become new members simply did not possess the physical characteristics or mental/emotional attitude to be studs at all. Others are suitable as studs in some situations but not this one.